“I've done every personality test going — Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, StrengthsFinder. This is unlike any of them. It actually knew me. Not a type that sounds like me. Me.”
One online conversation.
The truest thing you may ever
read about yourself.
Personality tests turn you into a type. Our simple online conversation, uniquely analysed, gives you so much more. Your real strengths, the beliefs limiting your life, and a detailed action plan for growth.
Different starting points.
The same depth of analysis.
The SI Companion meets you exactly where you are.
Three parts. Each one going deeper.
The analysis is not a summary. It is a document — warm, precise, written for you. Most people read it more than once.
- A written portrait of your character, drawn from the conversation
- Up to 24 character strengths identified from how you speak — not how you rate yourself
- Personality profile across 27 specific facets — and what they reveal about your patterns
- Emotional stability, well-being, and what is driving your current state
- What your deepest capacities are — and what has been suppressing them
- 18 psychological patterns assessed from your conversation
- The core limiting belief at the centre of each pattern — in your words
- How you cope — and the cost that coping is exacting
- Each pattern traced back to where and how it formed
- Scored 0–5: where you are now, and how far you have already moved
- Forgiveness inventory — the specific debts still being held
- The exact limiting beliefs named from your words
- Protective strategies identified and addressed
- Soul pledges: heart-level commitments that may need to be released
- A vision — who you are becoming on the other side of this work
You grew up with a mother whose own needs for recognition were so pressing that there wasn’t room for yours — and a father whose own preoccupations meant your emotional life largely went unseen. The result is someone who has become very self-sufficient in meeting his own needs, but who still carries a deep, legitimate longing to have those needs met by another person.
What you needed as a child — to be seen, celebrated, and known — was not too much to ask. It was entirely reasonable. The problem was never the need.
Three best-in-class tools.
One integrated analysis.
Each framework was chosen because it is the best available in its domain. In each case, we go further than the framework alone.
The VIA framework is the most rigorously validated strengths tool in positive psychology, used by researchers and practitioners worldwide. We use it because it is simply the best available measure of character.
One of the most scientifically developed personality frameworks available — measuring 27 specific facets across five domains, far more granular than standard five-factor tools.
Among the most influential contributions to modern psychology — identifying eighteen core patterns that form in childhood when core needs go unmet, and persist across a lifetime.
Most assessments tell you who you are.
This one tells you what to do about it.
The limiting belief beneath each pattern — named in your own words
Most assessments identify what you do. This one identifies what you believe that makes you do it. Each pattern comes with its core belief stated precisely, drawn from what you said — and an answering truth written for you, not for everyone.
A detailed action plan — not just insight
Part Three gives you something most tools never reach: a forgiveness inventory. Soul pledges that need releasing. Protective strategies named and addressed. A clear next step. Not a general framework. Your specific work.
Patterns traced back to where they formed
Every pattern is placed in the context of your history. Not "you have this pattern." Rather: where it came from, who was involved, what you decided about yourself — and why that decision made sense at the time.
Unlike every other assessment, this one shows you how far you have already come
Every pattern is scored for where you are now — and where you were earlier in life. For most people, this is the first time anyone has shown them that the work they have done has actually moved something.
Your strengths observed, not self-reported
Your strengths are identified from the conversation — from what you value, how you describe the people you admire, what you reach for when things are hard. For many people, this is the first time their strengths have been named by something that was actually paying attention.
Most self-knowledge stops at description. The Spiritual Intelligence analysis goes further — it names the belief, shows you where it formed, and hands you a way out.
From the preface to Spiritual Intelligence by Mark WagnerA questionnaire is free.
A conversation is different.
Most online assessments ask you to rate statements on a scale. The processing is instant because nothing is being processed — you already did the work. The SI Companion is a live, responsive conversation. Generating your analysis requires multiple passes of sophisticated AI reasoning.
A real conversation, not a form.
The Companion asks follow-up questions, sits with ambiguity, responds to what you actually say. This requires live AI reasoning at a level questionnaires never need.
A specialist framework, not a generic AI.
The conversation is built on years of pastoral and psychological research. You are not chatting with a general assistant.
A document worth keeping.
Your analysis is written prose — warm, precise, specific to you. Can save your therapeutic or counselling professional weeks of exploratory work.
Your conversation is never shared with third parties, sold, or used to train AI models. We hold your data only to deliver your analysis, in accordance with UK GDPR. Privacy Policy · Terms & Conditions
Your complete Spiritual Intelligence analysis
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The SI Companion is a self-knowledge and reflective tool — not psychotherapy, counselling, or medical advice. No therapeutic relationship is formed. No clinical diagnosis is produced. If you are in acute distress or have a diagnosed psychological condition, please consult a qualified professional first. The Spiritual Intelligence framework draws on published academic research and is not affiliated with or endorsed by any clinical institution. Full details: Terms & Conditions.
What people ask before they start
Do I need religious faith to benefit from this?
No. The questions the analysis explores are human questions: why do I behave the way I do, what do I believe about myself that isn't true, what am I still carrying? People of faith will find a language for that journey. People without faith will find the same pathway, differently lit.
What psychological framework does this use?
The analysis draws on research into early maladaptive psychological patterns — academic work originally developed by psychologist Jeffrey Young. The Spiritual Intelligence framework integrates this with original pastoral and theological research. This is not schema therapy as a clinical treatment. It is a self-knowledge tool informed by the same research.
I've done therapy for years. Will this give me anything new?
Quite possibly. Several people have reported that the analysis named something their therapist and they hadn't quite reached. The format — a written document you can read, re-read, and bring into a session — often surfaces things that conversation alone doesn't.
How is my conversation data protected?
Your conversation is private. Never shared with third parties, sold, or used to train AI models. Data is held solely to deliver your analysis, in accordance with UK GDPR. Full details: Privacy Policy.
Why is there no free version?
Every conversation requires live AI processing at a level that has a genuine cost. A free version would mean a severely compromised analysis. We offer one price for something complete.
The patterns underneath your life have names.
The beliefs can be stated plainly.
The work has a beginning.
Most people spend years circling the same territory. One honest conversation might be the most direct route through it you have found yet.
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